i'm reading this great book right now, it's called "i kissed dating good-bye" it's really giving me a great perspective on guys and when it is the right time to have a serious relationship, and when it's time to just be friends. right now, i've decided to just be friends with the guys in my life. why ruin a friendship with emotional stuff? the only hard part is, there's a guy i really like and i think he likes me. i want to date him, but i know it's not the right time. sometimes being a friend is really hard. any advice?